HANDS
FREE ORAL SEX:
For
Many Men Simple Is Better But Others Are Like Mature Kids In A Candy Store!
Many purists prefer the most basic form of fellatio
delivered through 100% oral stimulation. But there are at least three different kinds of fellatio styles.
1.
Technically Assisted Fellatio
2.
Manually Assisted Fellatio
3.
Hands Free Fellatio
GLOSSARY:
FELLATIO: The art including the various techniques that
may be employed delivering oral stimulation and pleasure to the male
penis.
TECHNICALLY ASSISTED FELLATIO: The use of electrically powered external
devices or apparatuses such vibrators, penile pumps, a flesh-light or other
mechanical devices including a penile ring or scrotum stretcher/separator, a
dildo, an anal plug, etc., used in order to enhance penile arousal in addition
to using oral fellatio techniques but not exceeding more than 30 percent of the
total penile stimuli.
MANUALLY ASSISTED FELLATIO: When the fellator uses their hands to manually
deliver penile arousal in addition to using oral fellatio techniques; these
non-oral features include non-electrical accessory devices introduced to
enhance penile stimuli but not exceeding 30 percent of the total penile stimuli. Manually assisted fellatio may include non-mechanical
devices inserted, attached or applied to the genitalia, rectum, nipples or
other body parts including sounding devices, spanking, paddling, flogging,
binding, cuffing, restraining, etc.
HANDS FREE FELLATIO: When no external, mechanical or
manual devices are used to achieve penile stimulation and the fellator relies
solely on their oral skills, techniques and rituals to achieve orgasm or to
satisfy their host. Hands-free fellatio
is qualified by the use of 100 percent oral stimulation techniques. Hands-free techniques may include licking,
sucking, breathing, kissing, verbalization, slavering, spitting, use of lips,
throat, tongue, jaws, oral massage, pressure, oscillation, biting, compressing,
pulling/stretching, etc.
FELLATOR: The person or device who administers penile
stimulation by orally massaging and arousing the male sex organ including the
scrotum.
RECIEVER: The man
who is receiving oral penile stimulation administered by the fellator.
A man who truly enjoys the pleasures of oral sex either
as the fellator or the recipient of fellatio will tell you that it is all about
technique. The way the any sexual
encounter ultimately plays out usually depends on a mix of variables beginning
with a sexual attraction, then a sexual ritual or plan ensues calling upon a
host of other support systems such as a sexual arsenal consisting of toys and
erotic gadgets and of course the essential collection of sexual techniques or
skills. All of these features can be
easily identified as a distinct pattern that represents the sexual style of the
fellator and the recipient.
Every sexual ritual consists of a step by step
progression of sex which can be structured in a simple linear outline. A sexual ritual always has a singular point
of arousal precipitated by the initiator. For oral sex the opening session, the
body and closing sessions define a ritual that consists completely of what is
generally considered to be foreplay. It is
important to note that when fellatio becomes the exclusive type of sexual
interaction orally induced stimulation and orgasm replaces intercourse as the
primary sex act. Most men do not think
of oral sex as an end unto itself, it has traditionally been treated as a
warm-up to intercourse because in the heterosexual model sex was intended solely
for the purpose of reproduction and not merely for pleasure. Oral sex is really
no different from intercourse if one approaches it merely with the intent of
delivering sexual pleasure. Oral rituals
can be strictly defined within sexual roles but often oscillate back and forth
as each partner assumes a servicing or role or a receiving role. Oral techniques may be substituted by or mixed
with other sexual techniques as partner’s progress through their sexual rituals
whether their roles change or not. The
final stage of the oral ritual is when orgasm or the equivalent of satiation is
achieved consummating the lovemaking acts.
Simply put a sexual ritual is merely a distinct pattern of progressive
sex acts beginning with suggestion and arousal and ending in orgasm or erotic satiation. When fellatio is the exclusive theme for a sexual
ritual it typically has a linear structure which is easily outlined as a phased
application of various oral techniques employing specific elements of a sexual
arsenal that often characterize a distinct sexual style.
Once a sexual ritual begins it requires specialized
support features in order for the involved parties to properly play it out. These features will be pulled from a sexual arsenal
of tools which may include a collection of oral techniques only. Some technical tools may also be incorporated
to enhance the ritual and they may consist of various sexual apparatuses,
mechanical devices, visual and audio media, tactile tools such as oils, apparel,
whips or verbalization. The oral ritual
changes as the fellator and the recipient advance to intensified stages of
sexual exploration and appeasement relying on established techniques and
introducing new stimuli in a pattern intended to bring pleasure to both. An example of an oral ritual would be to
begin with verbal stimuli describing the ensuing stages of the ritual as a
tease, massaging the areas around the male genitalia but not the genitalia
themselves, changing into a seductive costume or undressing completely leaving
the other partner fully clothed, applying heat or cold to the genitalia while
he is clothed, unzipping the trousers or lowering the pants so that the
genitalia is exposed then adorning them with penile jewelry such as a ring or
stretcher. Finally the ritual might include oral pleasure moving from the
scrotum up to the tip of the penis concentrating on various erogenous zones to consummate
the sexual act. Consummation of fellatio
or any other sexual ritual does not have to include orgasm as in the example of
role players whose goal is to explore dominance and submission as a primary end
unto itself in which case orgasm is clearly secondary to obedience. No matter how the fellatial ritual plays
itself out it will always pull from a support system of tools and the skills to
effectively employ them as part of a unique sexual style.
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While a sexual ritual is easily mapped the actual sexual
techniques employed are far more difficult to define in an outlined form. We can simplify oral techniques in a short
list including Technical, Manual and Hands-Free techniques but in actuality
most but not all oral rituals consist of a combination of all three techniques. Purists mostly prefer an all-oral technique
where the fellator uses their mouth, lips, gums, throat, lips and saliva in
order to massage and stimulate the various areas of the penis scrotum and crotch. These techniques may include sucking,
licking, breathing of hot or cold air against the genitalia, compressing, pulling,
rotating the orifice, sliding up and down the shaft, slavering, biting,
kissing, tonguing, etc., etc., etc. but always only with the exclusive use of
the mouth. A hands-free technique can
easily be the most physically demanding and psychologically rewarding of all
three techniques because the fellator cannot rely on any external devices to
give his mouth a rest and therefore requires a great deal of stamina typically
gained with extensive experience administering the fully oral technique. Furthermore the receiver enjoys the
psychological pleasure and assurance that his fellator has given 100 percent of
their attentiveness and as is often the case he has become actively involved in
the ritual application of oral techniques to guide the fellator toward his own
pleasure. At the end of the day fellatio
is all about the predominant use of artful oral techniques purposed to bring a
more humanly tactile and intimate dynamic to the administering of penile
pleasure over technical and manual fellatio styles.
The hands-free technique may not be as effective as the
technical and manual fellatio styles when it comes to satisfying a man who is
used to enjoying penile stimulation through auto-erotic hand techniques or
mechanical stimulation through external devices and is looking for oral stimulation
merely as a substitute for them. At some point we should endeavor to determine
the limits of what is acceptable as Fellatio marking a cut-off point for sexual
techniques that employ oral techniques, rituals and styles but only marginally
causing them to fall into other non-oral categories. Consider this example for contrast; a convertible
automobile is either a hard removable top or a soft retractable top, having an adjustable
skylight/vent opening to about 15 degrees does not transform an automobile into
a convertible the same as minimal oral content and technique does not
constitute a true fellatio style. Fellatio
is fellatio!
Oral fellatio specialists would be wise to consider that receivers
who come from a strong auto-erotic background may prefer a more linear style
that mimics the up and down pattern they generally use on themselves and the
fellator should be quite sensitive to the level of intensity required to
actually deliver adequate stimulation as auto-erotic stimulation can often
apply more torque and pressure to the penis than a mouth can comfortably
deliver. It is simple physics that in
the application of fellatio the mouth is not an equal substitute for the hand
because it does not have the same lever arm mechanical advantage. The best way
to gauge how much manual work needs to be incorporated into an oral technique is
simply by watching the recipient demonstrate his auto-erotic style of reaching
orgasm and modifying to fit your oral style.
The pattern of stimulation should be noted as a reference for applying a
purely hands free, manual/oral or technical/oral technique but changing the
sequence is suggested from time to time in order to add diversity and surprise. The manual technique will involve hand
massage that closely simulates the recipient’s own manual technique with oral
highlights and supplementation at varying degrees of necessity. It can be argued that a manual oral technique
that incorporates 30 percent or less manual technique is really not pure
fellatio at all. It is my opinion that
true fellatio requires a minimum of 50-60 percent oral technique leaning toward
the higher end of 60-75 percent of oral style.
Naturally this brings us to the subject of technically
assisted fellatio techniques which are becoming more popular as electrical
apparatuses become more specialized, sophisticated and affordable. The utilisation of butt-plugs, dildos and
such both vibrating and non-mechanical, the use of penile rings, stretchers,
sounding devices can loosely be defined as tools of a sexual arsenal intended
to support technically assisted fellatio.
Again, similar to manual fellatio techniques, technical fellatio
techniques that become pared down to 30 percent or less actual oral technique risk
being disqualified as fellatio because they have far too little oral
content. While nobody expects sexual partners
involved in a fellatio ritual to actually gauge the ratio of oral to mechanical
content using a stopwatch it is the purpose of this article to suggest
reasonable limits for each category of fellatio style. Technically enhanced fellatio rituals can
certainly be some of the most interesting because they employ non-traditional
methodology to the explication of the genre of fellatio! We all should consider embracing the current
trends to expand our enjoyment of oral sex especially if it has not captured
our attention before. Mechanical devices
that are electrically driven such as electric wands, penile rings and scrotum
stretchers, sounding devices, anal plugs and dildos, nipple rings, clamps and
other sexual apparatuses that use electrically motivated impulses to create
arousing sensations are here to stay and they are amazingly effective for
raising the bar when it comes to any kind of sexual technique or ritual. More and more purists who exclusively enjoy
hands-free fellatio admit to incorporating unique electrical devices into their
sexual arsenals and rituals without any loss of oral proficiency. Technically assisted fellatio techniques
define an uncharted landscape appealing to those who enjoy giving and receiving
fellatio but as with all things people must find a balance that preferably maintains
the human, tactile element of one of the simplest forms of sexual pleasure a
man can enjoy. I have never been a
proponent of the belief that a machine could ever replace a human being when it
comes to sex and fellatio is no exception.
I believe that manual and mechanical accessories can be incorporated as
part of a healthy and enjoyable fellatio ritual and during those times when it may
be impossible or impractical to get the real thing a man simply has to brace himself
planning ahead. In these times when modern
men are overwhelmed by the intensification of potentially sexually transmitted
diseases among partners I encourage careful screening and the use of safe and
reasonable sex techniques with new and established sexual partners who mutually
enjoy fellatio. I went into greater
detail about fellatio because I perceived that while many men do or do not
enjoy it they do not really understand why; this is often because they have
never really verbalized it or given it any serious consideration. There is the crowd that will say sex is sex, putting too much thought into it
will ruin it”, but I argue that since for many men it represents the most popular
form of enjoyment it cannot be given enough thought! We improve at things we want to improve at,
grow stronger from things we understand and what man does not want to get
better at sex? Why gentlemen as if
enough has not already been said, this one is a no-brainier…
FIN
WRITTEN
BY BIGDADDY BLUES
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